Lara is a Clinical Psychologist dedicated to creating a safe and supportive space where clients can explore, reflect, and navigate their personal journey. She understands the importance of finding the right therapeutic fit and is committed to helping individuals access care that feels aligned, effective, and meaningful for them.
It’s normal to feel nervous before your first psychology appointment. This overview will help you understand what to expect and feel a little more prepared.
Introduction to Therapy
Your first session is really about connection. It’s an opportunity for you and the psychologist to get a sense of each other and see whether it feels like a good fit. A strong therapeutic relationship is one of the most important parts of effective therapy.
Your psychologist will introduce themselves, explain how they work, and talk through confidentiality. They’ll outline their approach and what therapy with them typically looks like. You’ll also have space to ask questions or share any concerns before getting started.
Understanding You Holistically
Your psychologist will likely ask you a range of questions to understand you in a holistic way. This might include your background, relationships, work or study, physical health, and what has brought you to therapy now.
You don’t need to share everything at once — just what feels safe and relevant in the moment. Even small pieces of your story help them build a fuller picture of who you are and how best to support you.
Figuring Out Your Goals
A big part of the first session involves exploring what you’d like support with. Goals can be practical, like managing anxiety or improving sleep, or more personal, like building self-confidence or learning to set boundaries.
Together, you and your psychologist will begin to come up with a plan for what feels helpful and right for you right now. Therapy is collaborative — it’s not something that is “done to you,” but something you work through together.
Some Practical Checks
Your psychologist may ask you to complete a short questionnaire or assessment to better understand your current wellbeing. This can help guide your work together.
Planning the Next Steps
By the end of your first appointment, you’ll usually have a clearer sense of the direction you’re heading and what the next few sessions might focus on. It’s normal to leave feeling a little unsettled — therapy can bring up emotions you haven’t thought about in a while. That discomfort can sometimes be part of the process.
It’s also important to know that it’s okay if you don’t feel a strong connection in the first session. Sometimes it takes another session or two to settle in. Other times, it might mean that a different psychologist is a better fit. Just like forming friendships, we don’t connect with everyone — and finding a psychologist you feel safe and comfortable with is important.
Your first session isn’t about having all the answers or fixing everything immediately. It’s about starting a conversation, building trust, and giving yourself permission to seek support. Taking this step is a sign of self-awareness and care — and the beginning of understanding yourself more deeply